JOAN CAROLINE WILBUR “selestel-lot”
JOAN CAROLINE WILBUR “selestel-lot”

Joan Caroline Wilbur selestel-lot was born on June 16th, 1937 in Harrison Mills, BC, Canada. She lived a life filled with prayer, giving, and tradition. Joan’s teachings from her elders have been passed down to her family and community and will not be forgotten. On May 18th, 2020 she said her last prayer with us. Joan grew up alongside the Fraser River in British Columbia, daughter to Joseph Pennier and Jean Pennier (Willoughby) on the old Scowlitz Reserve. At the young age of 5 she was taken to St. Mary’s Residential Boarding School in Mission, BC. Following her completion she enrolled in nursing school in Vancouver and graduated with a LPN degree. From there she worked at Essindale Hospital in Port Coquitlam as a nurse. In the summer of 1958 at the Stommish Water Festival, her love of dancing caught the attention of her future husband Marvin Wilbur Sr. Soon after, they were married and started a beautiful family and a marriage that has lasted 60 years. Joan and Marvin got married at St. Mary’s campus in Mission BC in 1960.

She became a US citizen and a Swinomish Tribal member after the start of their marriage. Marvin and Joan built a rewarding life through working hard while understanding the importance of generosity and compassion. Joan pursued many endeavors and had many successes. Through her time on the Swinomish Senate, she oversaw the following developments of the health clinic, dental clinic, housing, addition of the casino, smokehouse, and Spiritual Center at St. Paul’s. Joan contributed to the vision of having a holistic community for the Swinomish people. Joan was a part of many gaming, fishing, and intertribal initiatives.

She was a woman of strong Catholic faith most active with St. Paul’s and St. Mary’s Parishes. She was a self-taught culinary artist and spent countless hours baking, cooking, and canning. One thing she cherished above all was spending time with family. She enjoyed watching her family play competitive sports and other activities, spending time tending to her garden, and sharing home-cooked meals together. Joan will be missed dearly by her family, loved ones, and friends – but her life will never be forgotten.

Joan is preceded in death by her parents Joseph Pennier and Jean Pennier (Willoughby); grandparents George and Alice Hall; great grandparents Minnie Peters and Richard Willoughby; brother John Pennier (Uncle Baldy).

Joan is survived by her husband Marvin Wilbur Sr.; children Lenora Cook, Marvin Wilbur Jr. (Brenda), and Michael Wilbur Sr. (April); grandchildren Sean Wilbur, Jordan Wilbur, Garrett Wilbur (Abi), Michael Wilbur Jr., Nicole Wilbur, Jonah Cook, Anna Cook, and Sarah Cook; great grandkids Tatum Wilbur and Braxton Wilbur. Numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

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Funeral arrangements are under the care of Kern Funeral Home.