Protect kids from transphobic hatred

They are just kids. For most kids, their anatomy matches how they feel, but for some it is not that way. The adherence to a binary male/female dichotomy is not accurate. Chromosomes differ, genes go their own way, hormones have different results in different kids. A child is born. Unpredictability is a predictable outcome. No two of us is the same. Some of us are ­transgender.

So, at age 3, 4 and 5, personality emerges. This is the child you have. To understand this person, you need to observe and listen. If this child has a gender identity that surprises you, think twice before you act. Take some time. If this identity continues to be persistent, insistent and consistent, this child may be transgender. Maybe the child will ask to use a name that more closely fits who they are. They may want to wear clothes that express who they are. Have no fear, no one will propose any surgical alterations. Schools will not kidnap your child and alter their genitals. What a ridiculous lie! This child will feel supported if they have support for who they are-not who you need them to be. There will be no hormones prescribed, no medications. Those decisions are for later. This child will grow and help others understand who they are.

No tragedy has occurred. You can grow and learn with this child or you can choose to make things harder for your child. Educate yourself. They are just kids. Protect them from all the angry people who aren’t willing to educate themselves. Be a warrior for this child. They are so young to be the focus of so much undeserved attention and rage. They are just kids.

Linden Jordan

Marblemount